Do you feel many times like your money doesn’t make it to the end of the month? Or maybe that’s fine but that vacation you wanted to take has to be put off or scaled down from the vision you had.
Did you know we cut off our money flow whenever we reinforce the lack? You have probably heard of the law of attraction, so if you think negative thoughts about money you’ll have less of it. Even when we think we’re being positive, we could be in the negative zone. For example if we are grateful that this month we can pay the bills and thinking of all those times we couldn’t, you are actually reinforcing all the time we can’t.
So how do we start changing this? Besides being a “let’s get it done” sort of practical coach, I also work on mindset and spiritual principles, so in my private VIP sessions for changing your money karma I start everyone off with writing a letter to money as if it is a person (from the book You are a Badass at Making Money by Jen Sincero – very funny and highly recommended…I only borrow from the best!).
If you wrote that letter, what would you say? Something like – – I am really angry at you. You come and go in my life and are totally undependable because you are never there when I need you. Why? Don’t you love me?…
OR maybe you might say something more like – – Hi money. You’re pretty cool. I really enjoy hanging out with you. I love when you’re in my life and we get to do some pretty cool things together, but when you’re not…
If you do write the letter, and I highly recommend it, you’ll see exactly where you are with money. Most people seem to have a love/hate relationship; I love you when you’re here and hate you when you abandon me. It will really show you why money is not in your life.
And by the way, if all you think about when you imagine money coming your way is your day job, just remember that your money source doesn’t have to be from one place. Imagine if you had money flowing from multiple sources…how would that feel? I managed to accomplish this and I have to say it is pretty cool. If you widen your vision and see from your heart and spirit, multiple ideas will come to you and even opportunities you never imagined.
It all starts with seeing where you are with money. How do you see it and how are you treating it. A little work can shift your way of thinking and your bank account too!